so a friend pointed out something recently which brings me to question.
#1 is there a 3 month period?
explanation : when you finally get into a relationship. is the first 3 months of the relationship just "getting to know each other period?" is this the make it or break it period?
okay so thats obviously one way of seeing it. doesnt matter how long you've known someone as a friend because having a person as a friend and having them as a boyfriend/girlfriend is a totally different thing. they may act a certain way when you're still friends and then they may act a certain way when their in a relationship, so the first 3 months is the testing period and it will come down to the do or die question : does she/he work as a couple?
#2 is there another perception of the 3 month period?
yes. of course.
some people may see the first 3 months as the honeymoon period. same goes for people who get married and newlyweds are always seen much happier than those who've been married for a while. (in most cases that is)
but somehow for me, it comes down to the same thing. it may be all butterflies and kisses the first few months then reality kicks in & things go sour.
okay so my real question here is,
is there some kind of unspoken 3-month rule that i've just recently heard about because it seems to make a little sense to me - i just wish i could know more. & if there isnt. well, i guess we girls can now start using this 3 month rule because in a way, it seems like a damn good way to prevent a bad relationship from continuing.
#3 does a three-month-rule exist?
#1 is there a 3 month period?
explanation : when you finally get into a relationship. is the first 3 months of the relationship just "getting to know each other period?" is this the make it or break it period?
okay so thats obviously one way of seeing it. doesnt matter how long you've known someone as a friend because having a person as a friend and having them as a boyfriend/girlfriend is a totally different thing. they may act a certain way when you're still friends and then they may act a certain way when their in a relationship, so the first 3 months is the testing period and it will come down to the do or die question : does she/he work as a couple?
#2 is there another perception of the 3 month period?
yes. of course.
some people may see the first 3 months as the honeymoon period. same goes for people who get married and newlyweds are always seen much happier than those who've been married for a while. (in most cases that is)
but somehow for me, it comes down to the same thing. it may be all butterflies and kisses the first few months then reality kicks in & things go sour.
okay so my real question here is,
is there some kind of unspoken 3-month rule that i've just recently heard about because it seems to make a little sense to me - i just wish i could know more. & if there isnt. well, i guess we girls can now start using this 3 month rule because in a way, it seems like a damn good way to prevent a bad relationship from continuing.
#3 does a three-month-rule exist?
2 comments:
zoh well it depends on circumstances
there are differences between the male and female.
female often seems to be taking her own sweet time, try to prolong the `seeing each other period` , instilled with selfish trait wanting all the attentions from a guy but still try to convince one self that I AM NOT YET READY FOR A NEW RELATIONSHIP..wtf but at the same time craves for attentions eg sms and phone calls...in other means, i need a guy but i only need him when i am bored, when i am not bored he can go fuck off...but is nice to have him around. his presence meks everything wonderful but again he cant be around for too long...because his constant presence is intimidating other men. hehehehe. At this point, we convinced ourselves again , WE ARE NOT CHEATING OK, WE ARE JUST KEEPING OUR OPTIONS OPEN (woman is always right la dont have to debate...debate also useless because woman is still the winner)
AND SO, male species is known to have very low patience tolerance ok. when he thinks he had spend enough money and efforts on you, he obviously want to have something in return, be it official relationship or sex.. ...( i still dont understand why most guys like to rush thing grgrgrgr).....so when you come across guy like this, i doubt the 3 month rule works lor...OH YA THIS LAGI WONT WORK if you happened to meet someone stingy...wtf bring you out no need money ah. injecting sms and phone calls no need money arh..drive you around no need money ar...everything about you is money okKkkKKkk!!!! wtf 3 months are a risky investment to them.... so yeah when he thinks he had done enough, he will come to you for an official relationship..if you say no then bye bye gaman! UNLESS YOU ARE AS HOT AS JESSICA ALBA then it will be another diff story lah
However....., if someone is as good as cmm..handsome, tall, romantic, good in words, enuf to melt my heart with glares LIKE 10 in 1 package...why must i practice 3 months rule???seriously, if someone as good as him shows interest in me, i will be the first to strip OKkKKkkKKk!!!wtf i dont need 3 months to study himm....grasp him in my hand then only study la..there arent many male species like cmm in this whole wide world anymore. must take chances.chances dont come all the time.nyet nyet nyet. only idiot will take freaking 3 months to consider guy like cmm as a boyfriend...
actually i had very constructive critiscm on your post lor but thing changes once i start munching on keropok
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i think you've misinterpreted the post a little bit. i was talking about the first 3 months of being in a relationship, jackass or mr.perfect i think you would only really know after a certain amount of time into a relationship.
Chad Michael Murray is all the things you said but he also cheated on Sophia Bush with Paris Hilton after they got married. he may be hot but that doesnt change the fact he was the biggest bitch in the world for doing that to Sophia Bush.
MsSkeptical.
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