who's here to stick around for real?

ques.1 - why are men so different?

random: three guys - jake, carl and bob.

{jack is there for you whenever you need him. it could be miles out of his way, but he's there to pick you up anyway. he gets along with your family and you're beyond comfortable around him. you guys can cuddle up, but you feel no sexual connections. just comfort. extreme comfort. your family loves him too, and he treats your family very nice as well. he listens, he shares, he says things to make you feel special. he's like a best male friend. you know you can rely on him.}

{carl is someone you can't take your hands off. and he can't take his hands off you. you guys have so much chemistry and passion, others around you notice and wish you both would just screw already and get it over with. you guys share the same ambitions but rarely ever have decent conversations which do not lead to horny talks. at this point, he's totally in for a fling, but states clearly that he's not in it for the long run, although he shows many signs of being more conservative than he really is. all talk, no action.}

{bob is a random nice guy that you met from friends. you do not know much about him or his past because he isn't as open as carl, and isn't as close as jake. bob, on the outside, seem like the kind of guy you would bring home to mum. he's soft spoken and very careful about the way he acts in front of you. he seems genuinely interested to get to know you better. he does little sweet gestures to make you smile, and you guys are able to share lengthy conversations about the most random things. passion is low but sweetness is high.}


So, which guy is here for keeps? or a better question would be, which guy is mr.right? or do we even have to choose from these 3 guys? but if we don't and the moment passes and you lose all 3... could chances be you've thrown your right guy out the window? or is this where you close your eyes and tell yourself to keep waiting because mr.right isn't here yet?