.what i think are 'some' problems with men today.

dear readers

please be aware that IM RANTING. :)
don't mind my extreme generalizations.

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prob #1. too much emotional bagage

"my ex and i broke up, but she's still a great friend. she'll always have a special place in my heart. we broke up becuz (insert dramatic event here). if not for that, i think we'd still be together."

well, yea. i dont need to know that. i dont need to know some 'other' girl changed your life, and you owe every emotional growth to her. i dont need to know that there's someone out there with the power to grab your heart from me, as soon as she decides to come back to you.

i dont need to feel like i'm second best to your great lost love. i dont need to be reminded that i can never take her place. i dont need to know that you were happiest with her, but i'm "sweet" too. i dont need to know that becuz of her, you can't love me as much as you know u can.

i am ME. see me for ME. love me for ME. be with me becuz u can't wait to create and build memories with me. if you cant drop the bagage, at least try shutting up about it; or dont mind me becoming little miss-insecure.


prob #2. too much influence from friends

i know they'd make comments about me. they'd tell u if i'm hot, and they'd make you go out and hunt more if they think i'm not. they'd call you a pussy becuz u wouldn't f*** another girl behind my back. they'd tell you that your freedom is gone. they'd tell you "your girlfriend won't find out".

they'd tell you life is too short to stay with one girl. they'd pressure you that "this is your chance with a hot babe. you'd regret if u turn ur back on this chance!" they'd tell you that you can do better. they'd tell you that you're a loser for spending too much time with me. they'd tell you life just started when you turn 30.

but there's also things they dont tell u. like how extremely envious they are of you becuz you've got someone you can always rely on. that someone would always be there to listen, to hold you and make you feel wanted. that when you're sick, someone would willingly nurse u well, and hold ur hands when the rest of the world turn their backs on u. that when u want love, u dont have to look far and hard. that someone sees you as their world; while they're stuck with their massive ego, loud mouth and stale penises.

really, guys, take a step back and think about it. they can't make u feel what i can. they don't know me like you do. only u know whats between us. at the end of the day, when you're old and alone, they're not gonna be there to say "sorry man. shudn't hav told u to break up with her. she was pretty awesome. i guess there wasn't anyone better. tough luck." - and by then, guess what? you've lost me.


prob #3. too greedy

i thought this only applied to cute guys. guys who had the ability to switch girlfriends every week. but now i realised, some ugly men with great hearts can be like this too. they're lucky enough to find a girl who worships them, only to cause his ego to grow bigger, hence made him think "i can do better".

one fact guys fail to realise. average guys are more attactive to other girls ONLY CUZ they've got a girl in their arms. girls (especially single girls) tend to scout their opposition (usually another girl who's around their level in terms of looks and style), then check out the man that girl is with, and think they deserve at least something like that too. OR the taken man just seem more appealing becuz he's taken.

so, you think you will remain attractive when you're single and giving out desperate vibes all over again? you think you can do better than what you have? you think girls like me fall for you everyday? - seriously think again.


prob #4. too overly confident

this links to the above. guys nowadays no longer appreaciate the fact that their girlfriend loves them. they no longer appreciate the chance they've been given to be with such a wonderful girl (who probably possesses bad habits which really are only normal to every human being).

they no longer have that "i'm the luckiest man alive" mentality when they meet someone whom they click with, who loves them, cares about them, and accepts them; unless they're dating a hot babe wit no brains, who probably wakes up every morning feeling insecure becuz she's afraid of losing her beauty. (becuz when that happens, its goodbye to their passport to get through life.)

im not a super babe. but i'd still like to think i'm with a man who thinks i am. i'd most certainly feel like the luckiest girl alive when i'm with him; but i dont need HIM thinking im the luckiest girl to have HIM. leave that to me.